@cybette I can only imagine how much that's gotta suck, but when you hit a rough spot you just need to keep on pushing through, eventually you'll find some soft grass to lay on :)
true love comes with a load of crap. just saying "i love you" is not enough. both parties have to be willing to work to make the love last. when one side stops trying, or when one party is putting in a lot more than the other... the balance is off and things can go horribly wrong.
@sachaqs: i wish there's an undo button so i can undo this whole marriage. i don't usually regret things that i've done but this feels like nothing but a big fat mistake. costly in many ways...
Carol I too was just joking. I hate the phrase 'true love'. I think you know that. If anyone knows your pain recently it is I. I cry more than anyone knows.
hugs to you too, Melissa... i'll be more than happy to share some of your tears. my tear ducts are dry and refills haven't been possible for some reason
Traditionally Finns havn't been eager to employ prenuptial agreements, or avioehto (lit. "marriage condition" -> conditions on entering marriage) as it is called nativly, but this has changed a bit with the affluence that came with Nokia's growth in the 1990s as a global telecommunications player. Many ordinary peopl became rich overnight when their decades old Nokia shares (from the time when Nokia was still a rubber company) went up in value, were split and still grew substantially.
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hugs
11 months, 1 week ago by FyreFiend
((((hugs)))) if you need me you know where to find me
11 months, 1 week ago by geovoltoss
Divorce sucks.
11 months, 1 week ago by CaffeineJunky
Sometimes I wonder if it's really worth it getting married
11 months, 1 week ago by geovoltoss
But true love and all that crap!
11 months, 1 week ago by CaffeineJunky
Hugs, Carol. I feel your pain
11 months, 1 week ago by angelmartinez
@cybette hang in there...it's a rough patch, but you will get through this.
11 months, 1 week ago by chibbigirl
Hey @cybette! If you need some help to... hum.. press the delete key or anything, just say it. ;)
hugz
11 months, 1 week ago by sachaqs
@cybette I can only imagine how much that's gotta suck, but when you hit a rough spot you just need to keep on pushing through, eventually you'll find some soft grass to lay on :)
11 months, 1 week ago by snuxoll
true love comes with a load of crap. just saying "i love you" is not enough. both parties have to be willing to work to make the love last. when one side stops trying, or when one party is putting in a lot more than the other... the balance is off and things can go horribly wrong.
11 months, 1 week ago by cybette
@sachaqs: i wish there's an undo button so i can undo this whole marriage. i don't usually regret things that i've done but this feels like nothing but a big fat mistake. costly in many ways...
11 months, 1 week ago by cybette
oh, forgot to say... thanks everyone :)
11 months, 1 week ago by cybette
@cybette with all the leo ranting--you forgot to say thanks. lol
11 months, 1 week ago by chibbigirl
@chibbigirl: i know, that should have come first! my bad :P
11 months, 1 week ago by cybette
is prenup mainly a U.S. thing?
11 months, 1 week ago by cybette
Sorry to hear @cybette. I married a divorcee and inherited everything you're trying to shed...
11 months, 1 week ago by Texrat
Carol, I was just trying to make you smile, hun. Know it was in jest...
11 months, 1 week ago by chibbigirl
lol, no worries Betty, you did make me smile, as do most of you on jaiku :)
@texrat yeah i just feel sorry for those that come after that has to deal with my "baggages"...
11 months, 1 week ago by cybette
Carol I too was just joking. I hate the phrase 'true love'. I think you know that. If anyone knows your pain recently it is I. I cry more than anyone knows.
11 months, 1 week ago by CaffeineJunky
hugs to you too, Melissa... i'll be more than happy to share some of your tears. my tear ducts are dry and refills haven't been possible for some reason
11 months, 1 week ago by cybette
Traditionally Finns havn't been eager to employ prenuptial agreements, or avioehto (lit. "marriage condition" -> conditions on entering marriage) as it is called nativly, but this has changed a bit with the affluence that came with Nokia's growth in the 1990s as a global telecommunications player. Many ordinary peopl became rich overnight when their decades old Nokia shares (from the time when Nokia was still a rubber company) went up in value, were split and still grew substantially.
11 months, 1 week ago by jkniiv