haleja Itku puhdistaa sielun. Anna sille tilaa. Kipu ei katoa koskaan kokonaan -- se vain hälvenee hieman, kun löydät uutta rakastettavaa! Indeed, I wish you a great many new things (and people) to replace the hurtful points of the past!
haleja Itku puhdistaa sielun. Anna sille tilaa. Kipu ei katoa koskaan kokonaan -- se vain hälvenee hieman, kun löydät uutta rakastettavaa! Indeed, I wish you a great many new things (and people) to replace the hurtful points of the past!
@jkniiv nothing about destruction. its just punching punchbags have helped sometimes when having to deal with emotions you can't deal with in vocal terms...
it leaves you feeling, still annoyed, sad, hurt, but of a lesser extent
@runningwithbulls: Well, I guess I was referring to the wall option mainly, having personal experience from my teen years when I literally punched a hole in the drywall of my room. :)
I think every popular convos here starts with ramdom subjects and ends with words like beer, underwear, boobs... and sometimes computer, gadget, phone.
@whiteg: Ok, I stand corrected. Should have googled the phrase before commenting in an inapropriately irate fashion. :/ I promise to look up the song to culture myself on the subject, ok? :)
@whiteg: That we do. @cybette: And Carol, whatever you do, don't be ashamed to show your feelings. Hard-boiled chicks like you have their tender moment, too. Eh or nay? Ok, this is rhetorical really, don't bother to answer. :)
@bishop: Ha! I'm allergic to wheat so that tends to limit my options. Corona Extra 's ok but no match for good cider, especially those made from pears (perry).
@jkniiv: Yeah, that will definitely limit it. Corona is crap beer. We call it "Mexican Yellow Soda". If I'm drinking something Mexican I'm going Negra Modelo (for mainstream), Dos Equis Amber, or a Mexican microbrew (yes, they exist).
pfig: Don't forget, meetku October 2008, for the Tijuana Tequila Expo! (They have beers there too; tequila isn't good as the only thing to drink when eating...)
66 comments so far
I don't know what's wrong and I won't ask but I'm sorry your hurting.
1 year, 7 months ago by FyreFiend
Yep. We're here for you
1 year, 7 months ago by edythemighty
don't worry, things will get better.
1 year, 7 months ago by bubu1uk
If you don't want to talk... we're here too. ;-D
HUGZ!
1 year, 7 months ago by sachaqs
thanks guys. it's ironical that because there were so much good times, that the hurt is so deep now. from the highest of highs to the lowest of lows.
1 year, 7 months ago by cybette
hugs from me too hun
1 year, 7 months ago by dsample
Major, big-time, hugs
1 year, 7 months ago by phoneboy
Cry out your pain, Carol. feel your pain. hugs darling.
1 year, 7 months ago by chibbigirl
Dearest, hear you dear Carol, 哭吧！盡情的傾泄情绪！Cry your heart out, we are here, my dear friend, I am here!
HUGS (x10)
1 year, 7 months ago by chelx
POLAR BEAR HUGS (biggest one I could find)
1 year, 7 months ago by Marialita
Jaiku hugz Carol.
1 year, 7 months ago by CaffeineJunky
haleja Itku puhdistaa sielun. Anna sille tilaa. Kipu ei katoa koskaan kokonaan -- se vain hälvenee hieman, kun löydät uutta rakastettavaa! Indeed, I wish you a great many new things (and people) to replace the hurtful points of the past!
1 year, 7 months ago by jkniiv
haleja Itku puhdistaa sielun. Anna sille tilaa. Kipu ei katoa koskaan kokonaan -- se vain hälvenee hieman, kun löydät uutta rakastettavaa! Indeed, I wish you a great many new things (and people) to replace the hurtful points of the past!
1 year, 7 months ago by jkniiv
the sun always shines after the rain. :)
1 year, 7 months ago by rcadden
Hope you feel better, dear Carol!
1 year, 7 months ago by chelx
發生甚麼事了? come back here, i'll give you a HUGE hug!!!
1 year, 7 months ago by PandaGirl9
Hug!
1 year, 7 months ago by map
You have friends here, remember that.
1 year, 7 months ago by virbana
thank you, all of you. dunno what i did to deserve such love :) really grateful for all the friends i have here
1 year, 7 months ago by cybette
honestly, i don't want to talk about it, but thanks
1 year, 7 months ago by cybette
@cybette find a gym, a punch bag, and begin. or if your a bit mad, use a wall..either way, you'll feel much better.
1 year, 7 months ago by runningwithbulls
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1 year, 7 months ago by blowfish
@runningwithbulls: Talk about creative destruction ...
1 year, 7 months ago by jkniiv
Better not take it out on the walls in my apartment -- will have to pay for it, literally. Punching bags a good idea. @blowfish ?
1 year, 7 months ago by cybette
@jkniiv nothing about destruction. its just punching punchbags have helped sometimes when having to deal with emotions you can't deal with in vocal terms...
it leaves you feeling, still annoyed, sad, hurt, but of a lesser extent
1 year, 7 months ago by runningwithbulls
i always tell myself "we are ugly but we have the music" at such moment. late hugs
1 year, 7 months ago by whiteg
@runningwithbulls: Well, I guess I was referring to the wall option mainly, having personal experience from my teen years when I literally punched a hole in the drywall of my room. :)
1 year, 7 months ago by jkniiv
@whiteg: That sounds like a Chinese thing – referring to oneself as being ugly but with "the music". Wtf? Please clarify.
1 year, 7 months ago by jkniiv
It is not a Chinese thing, it is an English lyric (Chelsea Hotel from Leonard Cohen). Simple explanation, let the music wash away your sorrow.
1 year, 7 months ago by whiteg
Carol, u do deserve every bits of such love, :D big hugs dear!
1 year, 7 months ago by chelx
Exactly right! We're here for ya!
1 year, 7 months ago by Bishop
hugs You rock, Carol! Never let anyone tell you anything else!!!
1 year, 7 months ago by fabsh
ditto!
1 year, 7 months ago by silversurfer
1 year, 7 months ago by jj1980
*smile* you guys.... Best. Peeps. Ever!
1 year, 7 months ago by cybette
remote hugs, cakes and glass of wine. it will pass x
1 year, 7 months ago by overpills
Whiskey always works well for me
He Drinks a Whiskey Drink, He Drinks a ... ♫♫♪♫
1 year, 7 months ago by CiaranR
Ah, beer... the cause of, and the solution to, all of life's problems!
1 year, 7 months ago by Bishop
Homer, get back to work!
1 year, 7 months ago by edythemighty
Somehow, the conversation always come back to beer :)
1 year, 7 months ago by cybette
did I hear beer?
1 year, 7 months ago by geovoltoss
You drink beer, not hear it ;)
1 year, 7 months ago by edythemighty
it talks to me you know LOL
1 year, 7 months ago by geovoltoss
I heard beer too. See, it does talk! xD
1 year, 7 months ago by ramkumarshankar
Whats that beer? burn them all? No beer, I won't!
gulp, gulp
How'd you like that beer.
1 year, 7 months ago by CiaranR
I think every popular convos here starts with ramdom subjects and ends with words like beer, underwear, boobs... and sometimes computer, gadget, phone.
1 year, 7 months ago by sachaqs
@sachaqs Sometimes drinking beer in your underwear while using a computer or phone to jaiku about it ;)
1 year, 7 months ago by edythemighty
I didnt mention any of that stuff I swear (pretends to be innocent)
1 year, 7 months ago by geovoltoss
I hope you are feeling better @cybette..:)
1 year, 7 months ago by TheBlueNile
you were sick carol?
1 year, 7 months ago by geovoltoss
beer??
1 year, 7 months ago by overpills
@whiteg: Ok, I stand corrected. Should have googled the phrase before commenting in an inapropriately irate fashion. :/ I promise to look up the song to culture myself on the subject, ok? :)
1 year, 7 months ago by jkniiv
Bah, beer is overrated. Hard cider ftw! The best anglo-saxon invention, definitely, imho.
1 year, 7 months ago by jkniiv
@jkniiv Never mind. We all show our love and suppor to @cybette in our own ways.:)
1 year, 7 months ago by whiteg
@jkniiv: Anyone who says beer is overrated just hasn't had good beer. :)
1 year, 7 months ago by Bishop
@whiteg: That we do. @cybette: And Carol, whatever you do, don't be ashamed to show your feelings. Hard-boiled chicks like you have their tender moment, too. Eh or nay? Ok, this is rhetorical really, don't bother to answer. :)
1 year, 7 months ago by jkniiv
@bishop: Ha! I'm allergic to wheat so that tends to limit my options. Corona Extra 's ok but no match for good cider, especially those made from pears (perry).
1 year, 7 months ago by jkniiv
@jkniiv: Yeah, that will definitely limit it. Corona is crap beer. We call it "Mexican Yellow Soda". If I'm drinking something Mexican I'm going Negra Modelo (for mainstream), Dos Equis Amber, or a Mexican microbrew (yes, they exist).
1 year, 7 months ago by Bishop
@bishop yeah... trying to find anything but corona in europe is not easy :(
1 year, 7 months ago by pfig
@pfig: You do have my sympathies... but believe me, there is much better beer in Mexico than Corona!
(Seriously; among Mexicans Corona is known as "tourist beer".)
1 year, 7 months ago by Bishop
i can easily believe that, i've had... oh, 2 coronas in my entire life (the 2nd was just to be certain). it's a shame they don't export the others.
or, i could go to mexico :)
1 year, 7 months ago by pfig
pfig: Don't forget, meetku October 2008, for the Tijuana Tequila Expo! (They have beers there too; tequila isn't good as the only thing to drink when eating...)
1 year, 7 months ago by Bishop
When I was in mexico i drank Sol, Dos Equis and Pacifico. Can't remember which i liked best but all better than Corona anyways.
1 year, 7 months ago by cybette
@jkniiv: Hard-boiled chick from a hard-boiled egg? :P hmm, and i think this thread has become washing my face with beers ;)
1 year, 7 months ago by cybette
Just finding this... You know where I am lass.
1 year, 7 months ago by whatleydude
@cybette: lol-a-lot
1 year, 7 months ago by jkniiv